The Shy Guy Chooses Online Dating Over a Blind Date
The shy guy has two choices: to go on a blind date or try online dating. Both seem scary at first, but both can have their perks as well.
The shy guy and the blind date
Imagine the scenario for the shy guy on a blind date. You are the shy guy, and your friend decides that you need help with your love life. Your friend knows a friend of a friend of a friend. So he sets you up on a blind date. Being the shy guy, you are nervous but decide to be brave since you realize that your friend is right about your love life. The best part of the upcoming date is that you are meeting an actual person. This is nerve-racking if you are a shy person but at least the person is not a complete stranger. On the blind date, the two of you will probably go to a restaurant. At dinner, your date will begin to tell you about her. She may or may not be a match for you. If you find her boring, your blind date was not a success. You look at your watch and discover that only 10 minutes has passed.
The shy guy and the online date
Now imagine a date with someone you met through online dating and have been chatting online with and exchanging emails with for quite some time. First, you do not need to be introduced. You already know this person because you have had many conversations online and have even spoken on the phone. You decide to meet in person. You are sitting in an Italian restaurant enjoying a delightful meal because you both know that the other’s favorite is Italian. The conversation flows easily as you discuss common interests. You look at your watch and discover that it is late…very late…where has the time gone.
There is a big difference between a well-intentioned friend “setting you up” and choosing someone for yourself who shares your interests and tastes, isn’t there? Now which one would you rather have?
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